Just because you may be ‘over the hill’ as those funny retirement signs put it does not mean you and your partner can not have a fulfilling sex life. On the contrary, couples in their golden years have more time to be with one another without the stress of a 9-5 or raising a family. Even though you may have heard that sex in your 60’s should be way better than it ever was it may not be happening to you, personally. Luckily, there are a ton of ways to get creative when it comes to spicing up your sex life. To help you think outside the box below are five tips to try for some toe-curling sex.
1) Sex is Not Just Intercourse
Many of us, even in our younger years, have limited sex to be just about penetration, a penis entering a vagina. But that is just not the case. If you are able to change your mindset it can do wonders for your sex life. Oral sex is a great way to stimulate one another. The idea behind exploring one another’s bodies is that you are able to discover new pleasures for each of you. By taking the time to explore all aspects of the body you will be able to really enjoy what each tickle or kiss can offer you making your sexual desire grow.
2) Toys Are Not Just For Christmas
Who said Santa made all the good toys? As we age our hormones and our bodies change. Sometimes when this happens you may need a bit of help to achieve orgasm. For women, a clitoral vibrator, which is one without a dildo, is the perfect addition to your bedside table. Men should try a cock ring or prostate stimulator. Men can also try some enhancement pills for a bigger erection. For some men, their sexual performance can be enhanced with a simple supplement. But what are the best male enhancement pills? For a lot of men, it will depend on what works for you since no pill performs the same. For example, if you suffer from erectile dysfunction a doctor could prescribe something. Or you may want to try an herbal remedy like horny goat weed. There is nothing wrong with incorporating toys and all couples should embrace this mindset.
Posing for a camera may seem scary especially since younger couples send each other sexts all the time. But adding a sassy snap or two could be the key to getting those motors revving. There are some great boudoir photographers out there that are private and class who can offer you a great bedroom photoshoot. No matter what age it is important to feel empowered by your body and sexy. Also, if you are a bit shy you can take the photos for your eyes only. Confidence is the best accessories.
4) Outside Or Inside?
While having sex in public is a criminal offense and should only be done at your own risk, there is something to be said about the spontaneity of making love in a public place. Finding the perfect real estate can be essential to heating things up behind closed doors. If you are a bit nervous to go fully outdoors might we suggest moving the activities to the kitchen?
5) Bucket List Agenda
There is no time like the present to start checking ticks off the list of stuff you have always wanted to try. It can be as simple as taking a picnic to the park or going commando. You will feel more empowered and satisfied with your sex life, and really, isn’t that what everyone wants.